up up and away

I’m sitting on the floor in the Houston airport enduring a lay over. Yes, since I last wrote, I moved to Texas. Texas, by the way, and specifically, Austin, is splendid.  It is perfect for right now and I imagine for another year or so. Off to where next? I do not know. But I do like thinking about it.   

I spent the flight from Austin to Houston thinking of how much I love airports. Thinking, I love the way they smell; the air is always cold, the faint whiff of sunscreen that hangs around regardless of season or city, the freshly baked glutens that I cannot have but yet I crave, the men in business suits whom I’ve always had desires to ask to see what’s in their briefcases (back to this in a second), the magazines and books that convince me they are more relevant and riveting than the book in my bag, and my favorite, the newspaper stands.

The men in suits. The individuals about whom I have remained most curious- conveying a sense of urgency and utmost importance but with such calm demeanor. As if, they could be called to action at any moment but possess such confidence in their competence, that such concern is none of theirs. The contents of their briefcases must reveal clues.

To have taken such a strong liking to an idea, a concept, a person, or place, there surely must be a more deeply rooted innate desire that has been satisfied to an extent.. After much mulling, I think I have finally placed my finger on it.

 It is the sense of purpose that airports portray. It is that one place where everyone is in motion, everyone knows the next step, the next few hours of their day. So much is already decided. But yet, we all still expect the unexpected. No one seems stuck, everyone is moving forward. Everyone is fulfilling something. Purpose and fulfillment are two are my “things”. Things I will always be bound to and drawn to understanding.

moonrise kingdom

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4. Sam: So, what do you want to be when you grow up?
5. Suzy: I don't know...I want go on adventures I think--not get stuck in one place. How about you?
6. Sam: Go on adventures too, not get stuck too.

conroy

“What's important is that a story changes every time you say it out loud. When you put it on paper, it can never change. But the more times you tell it, the more changes will occur. A story is a living thing; it moves and shifts” 
― Pat Conroy, South of Broad

“The world of literature has everything in it, and it refuses to leave 

anything out. I have read like a man on fire my whole life because the 

genius of English teachers touched me with the dazzling beauty of language. 

Because of them I rode with Don Quixote and danced with Anna Karenina at a 

ball in St. Petersburg and lassoed a steer in "Lonesome Dove" and had 

nightmares about slavery in "Beloved" and walked the streets of Dublin in 

"Ulysses" and made up a hundred stories in the Arabian nights and saw my 

mother killed by a baseball in "A Prayer for Owen Meany." I've been in ten 

thousand cities and have introduced myself to a hundred thousand strangers 

in my exuberant reading career, all because I listened to my fabulous 

English teachers and soaked up every single thing those magnificent men and 

women had to give. I cherish and praise them and thank them for finding me 

when I was a boy and presenting me with the precious gift of the English 

language. ” 

― Pat Conroy

stains

my sweet old lady, german shepherd, abby is almost 11 and plagued now with hip dysplasia. I describe watching her bolt out and run searching for me when she hears the car engine humming along towards home as one of the moments in life where the heart swells. That swelling fills with you awareness of its endless capacity to grow and for a few moments, enables you to forget how difficult it is to love. It feels like someone poured a pitcher of goopy, semifluid paint into a small bowl with a border of cut out holes around the top and the amorphous liquid rushes out and clings to the surrounding structures-- leaving them touched with a lightness and hope.

eventually, the fluid dissolves and what just transpired is forgotten but I'd like to think that some of that colorant stains.

to reach

"Always in the dream, it seemed as if there were a destination: a something--he could not grasp what-that lay beyond the place where the thickness of snow brought the sled to a stop. He was left, upon awakening, with the feeling that he wanted, even somehow needed, to reach the something that waited in the distance. The feeling that it was good. That it was welcoming. That it was significant. But he did not know how to get there."
- Lois Lowry, The Giver

construct

“Like so many Americans, she was trying to construct a life that made sense from things she found in gift shops.” 
― Kurt Vonnegut, Slaughterhouse-Five

fairy's wing

“But his heart was in a constant, turbulent riot. The most grotesque and fantastic conceits haunted him in his bed at night. A universe of ineffable gaudiness spun itself out in his brain while the clock ticked on the washstand and the moon soaked with wet light his tangled clothes upon the floor. Each night he added to the pattern of his fancies until drowsiness closed down upon some vivid scene with an oblivious embrace. For awhile these reveries provided an outlet for his imagination; they were a satisfactory hint of the unreality of reality, a promise that the rock of the world was founded securely on a fairy's wing.”
-Fitzgerald, TGG

to convey

“He smiled understandingly-much more than understandingly. It was one of those rare smiles with a quality of eternal reassurance in it, that you may come across four or five times in life. It faced--or seemed to face--the whole eternal world for an instant, and then concentrated on you with an irresistible prejudice in your favor. It understood you just as far as you wanted to be understood, believed in you as you would like to believe in yourself, and assured you that it had precisely the impression of you that, at your best, you hoped to convey.” 
F.S. Fitzgerald, TGG

autumnal face

"No spring nor summer beauty hath such grace 

As I have seen in one autumnal face.” - John 

Donne 

the world

“The world was in her heart already, like the small spot of decay in a fruit.” 
― Graham Greene, The Power and the Glory

glittering

“Her eyes were glittering like the eyes of a child when you give a nice surprise, and she laughed with a sudden throaty, tingling way. It is the way a woman laughs for happiness. They never laugh that way just when they are being polite or at a joke. A woman only laughs that way a few times in her life. A woman only laughs that way when something has touched her way down in the very quick of her being and the happiness just wells out as natural as breath and the first jonquils and mountain brooks. When a woman laughs that way it always does something to you. It does not matter what kind of a face she has got either. You hear that laugh and feel that you have grasped a clean and beautiful truth. You feel that way because that laugh is a revelation. It is a great impersonal sincerity. It is a spray of dewy blossom from the great central stalk of All Being, and the woman’s name and address hasn’t got a damn thing to do with it. Therefore, the laugh cannot be faked. If a woman could learn to fake it she would make Nell Gwyn and Pompadour look like a couple of Campfire Girls wearing bifocals and ground-gripper shoes with bands on their teeth. She could get all society by the ears. For all any man really wants is to hear a woman laugh like that.” 
― Robert Penn Warren, All The King's Men

one point on the map

“There is nothing more alone than being in a car at night in the rain. I was in the car. And I was glad of it. Between one point on the map and another point on the map, there was the being alone in the car in the rain. They say you are not you except in terms of relation to other people. If there weren't any other people there wouldn't be any you because what you do which is what you are, only has meaning in relation to other people. That is a very comforting thought when you are in the car in the rain at night alone, for then you aren't you, and not being you or anything, you can really lie back and get some rest. It is a vacation from being you. There is only the flow of the motor under you foot spinning that frail thread of sound out of its metal guy like a spider, that filament, that nexus, which isn't really there, between the you which you have just left in one place and the you which you will be where you get to the other place.” 

― Robert Penn Warren 

life is measured in moments

24 hour grocery stores

Living by yourself is interesting to say the least. There's always this slight fear of slipping into an actuality composed purely of my own thoughts. I sit down to do something or think about something and I just get swept away. An hour will pass and I'll realize that I've just been lost in my own head with nothing to interrupt, divert or distract.

I curled up in an euphoric pile of a fresh, hot whites straight out of the dryer and watched "Like Crazy" late this evening. I had been wanting to see it for quite some time but typically steer away from any love story that looks like it has the potential and capacity to be heart wrenching. I figured it'd be another low-budget indy film where the characters bond over their love for the same music, books, oddities, and quirks. That, I can handle quite well. It's hardly believable anyways, but endearing in the relatable way that I have experienced fleeting adoration for boys who share my peculiar way of seeing things or perhaps just happen to also have an affinity for burritos, archie comic books, science fiction, and comparative literature.

I hated every moment of the entire movie. It was gripping, compulsive, enthralling, and engrossing. The film itself was tedious and more like snap shots of their relationship but I don't think anyone can sit through it without it resonating with their own harsh, revolting, and sometimes jarring humanity. We, as people, just suck learning to love selflessly. Perhaps I hated "Like Crazy" so much because it just served as an hour and half long reminder of how I've failed to put others first.

I was in such a melancholic state that I didn't know what else to do aside from go to the 24-hour grocery store. I love grocery stores in the same way that I love libraries. They are so full of potential, and so undeveloped. They house the components of any great meal. Just, all spread out, raw, uncooked, packaged up, and stacked.

I just wandered around until I snapped out of it, checked out, and returned to my car to listen to Call Me, Maybe and return home. Grocery store trips are always hilarious in their own way. A guy told me that I must have gotten a lot of sun recently to have such dark freckles on my shoulders and back. How does one even go about responding to a statement like that? I said, yes, that I had forgotten to put on sunscreen over the weekend. Then I just awkwardly shuffled away. Engaging in midnight conversations with strangers complimenting your freckles sounds like a very bad plan to me. No more off the shoulders tops to be worn to kroger. Lesson learned.

darlin' I need you like ships need the sea

Sweet sweet summer is finally here. 

Exams are over. 

Indianapolis was wonderful. 

2nd day of work down. 

"I can see it in her Cherokee eyes 
Those baby browns and the golden thighs 
What you doing for the rest of your life? 
Cause you don't want, don't wanna go"

Eating peaches that I picked up in South Carolina for dinner.  

So much to blog about. So much to think about. I wish I could just stop time right now and bask in the glory of summer for months and months. With sunburnt lips, a freckled nose, and a pinkish brown glow from too much, or perhaps the perfect amount of sun. 

My roommates are all moved out. It feels empty, especially without Marie's laugh filling the house. She's the only person I've met that laughs as much and as loudly as I do. I wouldn't be the slightly bit surprised if our neighbors secretly despised us or at least were dumbfounded about how that many things could be THAT funny at all hours of the day. 

After a year of meowing through the wall to the cat next door, I'm officially giving up on ever hearing a response back. Perhaps, I overestimated my abilities and I actually sound nothing like a cat. I do have other talents. I'll be okay. (I hope everyone knows I'm completely kidding about this) 

I love empty rooms. I've been hanging out in Marie and Crystal's bare, furniture-less room. To me, empty rooms are magical in a childish, spontaneous, whimsical way. So full of potential. So capable of transitioning to anything. I remember moving into Pope St. and cooking my first meal and eating on the floor with plastic silverware from wendys while watching a movie on my tiny tv (also placed on the floor). 

Waiting to get picked up to go play frisbee golf. I thought it was ultimate, so I was excited but I'm quite horrible about frisbee golf. But it's on north campus so I'm thrilled about that. Hanging out on north carmpus at night time is my favorite. It'd be the perfect night to wade around in the fountain. 

Who knew that with every passing year, life would wind up being more and more fun?

I thought adolescent was the peak of childhood bliss and carefree joy. I'm pleasantly surprised to report that each day winds up having new adventures, new joys, and new smiles. It's such a charming, mysterious, and sometimes even whimsical adventure.

I'm committed to challenging myself each day to try something new, broaden my horizons, think outside the box, and push myself beyond what I think I am capable of. I know I sound cliche and cheesy and that drives me up the wall- but in a real way. A way to transform the way I see things and the way I relate to others.

It's not a radical change. This isn't a new year's resolution. This isn't 4 days going to the gym and then a 4 month hiatus, or a new organizing system that is never utilized, or a fitness and health food kick. Nope. This is a slow, gradual, I'm-still-going-to-lounge-on-my-couch-frequently type of change. I'm not trying to move mountains or be revolutionary here. I'm not even intending to "motivate" or "inspire" someone. (Let's be real, we all secretly blog because we imagine others being moved by our lifestyles and choices and that will be impart such great wisdom upon a post one that that the core of a reader is stirred to the point of change and action). No, not one of those posts, just a record for me to write down that I appreciate my life exactly the way it is...it's one of those moments where I couldn't dream up anything that would make it better, nor would I change anything about it.

I can't stop time. I can't stay in college forever (even though I am really good at being in college). So, cheers to living up my fifth and final year.

Just got back from an absolutely delicious lunch downtown. I've climbed back into the fort-- which by the way, makes you feel like you're camping in the middle of your living room. It's incredible. It surrounds the front windows so during the day we pull up the blinds and pull back the curtains. The inside of the fort is transcended. The christmas lights are also the perfect touch.

I'm reading through a tumblr bucket list made by a girl who graduated a few years ago. Goodness gracious, I am so thankful I am not graduating. Despite this being finals week, it's been so adventurous. Adventurous, in the simplest way possible. The choice of deciding that joy is limitless, boundless, and exploding from the smallest things in life.

Bacon peanut butter burgers from clocked, all day study seshs in ECV dining hall, magical study forts, golden pantry candy trips, athens festivals, georgia theatre roof top bar, the uga chapel, birthdays, guacamole, ....

someone hopping out of their car without putting it in park to give a friend a hug.....okay, I confess. It was me..... but thankfully someone else hopped it and stopped it. You're a superstar.

Lite N' Luscious smoothies, banana peppers, booking flights, david crowder band, the blue book, motown music, swing dancing, american flag painted cut off jean shorts,

let it go

"I'm there in the storm.
My love I will keep you, by My pow'r alone.
I don't care where you fall, where you have been.
I'll never forsake you, My love never ends.
It never ends."


Sometimes I love staying up by myself until it's almost sunrise. Here, at ____ Street, we've built two forts. I've been settled into my little one by the kitchen window since midnight. It's so cozy under here with a lamp, almond joys, coffee, spotify playlists,  cognitive neuro notes, peace, and  joy. 


"I've been holding on so tight
Look at these knuckles
They've gone white
I'm fighting for who I wanna be
I'm just trying to find security

But You say let it go, You say let it go
You say life is waiting for the one's who lose control
You say you will be, everything I need
You said if I lose my life it's then I'll find my soul
You say let it go"

Dear Twilight, You're one of my hands down favorite weekends of the year. I am thankful for beautiful weather, friendships, fellowship, and bike racing! Dear Ava's birthday, I am so ridiculously thankful that this girl was born 21 year old. What would I do without the blonde version of me? Hahaha. Ava, you're incredible and everyday I am just uplifted by our time together and your presence in my life. Dear SAC, you all are just like a family to me. I cannot believe so many of you are graduating. Know how much I have appreciated every single one of you in my life! Dear Maggie, Our slumber party was the best. You bring so much joy in my life and I always wish we had more time together. The way you love our Lord is so beautiful to me. I'll be keeping my fingers crossed that we wind up living in the same city again one day!

mail-man

I bet my mail man wonders why I'm almost always home in the middle of the day when the mail arrives, just waiting like a golden retriever. 

He sees me. I wait by the window. I wave. He laughs. He thinks I'm nuts. Simple joys. 

What's even funnier is that I hardly ever get mail. But how would he know my name? My roommates always get letters. I hope he assumes I'm one of the letter receivers.  Nope. I am the letter catcher. It falls through the mail slot and I run and get it and put it on the stairs. That's it. That's my simple, enjoyable, one o'clock tradition. 

50% of the time "Call Me, Maybe" is blasting. 

I don't do classes during the "lunching" hours of the day. Lunch time is my favorite time of the day. It's time for dancing, lounging, arnold palmering, laundry, and making spotify playlists.